{"id":132,"date":"2016-05-13T08:42:56","date_gmt":"2016-05-13T08:42:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/raratheme.com\/preview\/benevolent\/?p=132"},"modified":"2023-07-28T07:59:54","modified_gmt":"2023-07-28T07:59:54","slug":"teaching-young-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/newlifefoundationmdu.com\/ta\/teaching-young-children\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0baa\u0bc6\u0bb1\u0bcd\u0bb1\u0bcb\u0bb0\u0bbf\u0ba9\u0bcd \u0baa\u0b99\u0bcd\u0b95\u0bc1 \u0bae\u0bc1\u0b95\u0bcd\u0b95\u0bbf\u0baf\u0bae\u0bbe\u0ba9\u0ba4\u0bc1!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Teenage drug abuse is a growing problem. Here are some commitments you can make to help your addicted teen. These suggestions are intended to help families who are working with a therapist. The therapist can point out which commitments will be most helpful to your family.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019m willing to sit down and listen to my child. Really listen. I\u2019m willing to do this often. I\u2019ll ask my teen what<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">I am doing that gets on his\/her nerves. I\u2019ll listen and take notes.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019m willing to give up nagging, lecturing, guilt-tripping, yelling, judging, and moralizing.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019m willing to \u201clet the cat out of the bag.\u201d I know that it takes a village to raise a child. Therefore, I\u2019m willing to set aside my pride, abandon secrecy (except where it would be harmful to do so), sit down with my family and extended family to explain the nature of the problem, ask for help, brainstorm solutions, and really listen to suggestions from family.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019m willing to spend time with my teen every week. Lots of time. I\u2019m willing to attend family activities that may or may not be especially fun for me. I&#8217;m willing to spend time, even though I have a lot of work to do. I\u2019m willing to enforce time together with my teen, even if he\/she doesn\u2019t want to spend time together.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">\nI\u2019m willing to set and enforce strict boundaries about drug\/alcohol usage around my family. If my teen\u2019s friend smokes, drinks, or uses drugs, that teen will not be allowed to come to our home. I realize I can\u2019t control what happens outside the home. If I have using friends or family members, they won\u2019t be allowed in the home if they are drunk, stoned, or high. We will not visit them when they are drunk, stoned, or high. No exceptions.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019m willing to educate myself about becoming a drug-free family. I\u2019m willing to read website articles, research areas where I know I\u2019m weak, talk to other parents about the problem, humble myself so that I can listen for help, and ask for resource materials if I can\u2019t find any. I\u2019m willing to attend therapy or classes so that I can learn.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019m willing to improve my parenting skills so that I\u2019m an appropriate parent\u2014not a drill sergeant, not a helicopter, not a marshmallow, and not a friend. I need to be firm, fair, and friendly. If necessary, I\u2019ll sign up for a community class on parenting. I\u2019ll read books on the subject, watch videos, research the internet, and listen to audiobooks. I realize that a strong, healthy relationship with my teen is absolutely vital.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">\nI\u2019m willing to look at my own addictions. If I smoke, drink alcohol in excess, or use drugs (even excessive reliance on prescription medications), I\u2019ll get the help I need so that I can quit. If I have other addictions, such as being a workaholic, churchaholic, rageaholic, foodaholic, or even chocaholic, I\u2019ll get myself into treatment so that I can stop. I want to set a good example for my teen. Addiction runs in families. Ultimately, there are no secrets in a family. Sooner or later everyone knows anyway. Better to be honest if I want my teen to be honest.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">\nI\u2019ll look at my codependency. I realize that everyone in the family plays a role in the problem. Therefore, I have a role in this also. I\u2019ll seek to find out what my role has been, and how I can change it. Perhaps I\u2019ve been an enabler. I will take the problem seriously and work very hard to quit enabling. I\u2019ll seek help from others, perhaps attend Al Anon, and ask how I can stop enabling.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">\nI\u2019ll look for community resources to address our family needs. If I\u2019m a single parent, I\u2019ll find a substitute parent of the opposite sex, a role model, to spend time with my teen.<\/li>\n<\/ul>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Teenage drug abuse is a growing problem. Here are some commitments you can make to help your addicted teen. These suggestions are intended to help families who are working with a therapist. The therapist can point out which commitments will be most helpful to your family. I\u2019m willing to sit down and listen to my child. Really listen. 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